it's time to break the damned silence!

lecjlobo · Seraphim Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 427 Location: Houston

it's time to break the damned silence!

**Posted:** Sun Jul 25, 2010 3:51 pm

Alex_the_lion

I'm so sorry you had to go though that. I don't know what to say.

**Posted:** Sun Jul 25, 2010 5:06 pm

Sleet

That's horrible! I'm so sorry you had to witness that, and will be praying for you and everyone else involved.

And you're absolutely right. This kind of thing shouldn't just be treated like water under the bridge, but some people are just too prideful to admit their problems, especially when they're older. You're doing the right thing by trying to help dissolve the taboo around this stuff.

**Posted:** Sun Jul 25, 2010 8:45 pm

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MatthiasRat

That's horrible beyond description. And evil. I will pray for you.

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**Posted:** Mon Jul 26, 2010 9:01 am

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IantheGecko

Oh, no! That's just....ugh, I need to take a long, long shower now. Major props for sticking up for good, brother.

**Posted:** Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:04 pm

mrkrystal

I'm sorry. The only thing we can do is ensure we do not repeat our parent's mistakes.

**Posted:** Tue Jul 27, 2010 2:09 am

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Firekeeper

*Hugs* I'm sorry that you have had to go through that and I'll definitely be praying for healing for you and those who have had to go through those situations as well.

**Posted:** Tue Jul 27, 2010 3:10 pm

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lecjlobo · Seraphim Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 427 Location: Houston

thank you to \everyne for your kind words and your prayers and also for toughing it out and rerading through that. i'm sorry for the language and for the incoherency(is that a real word?) I was just pouring out the pain and anger before it had time to turn into a spiritual abcess but i do believe with all my heart that we do need to break down the taboo about this i was so afraid of breakingit that i told you all alie ahwile back saying that my father never laid a hand on me except when i pushed him too far. that was not true and i beg your forgiveness for telling you that. Taboos are sometimes useful for maintaining social decorum and decency but some of them are dangerous to others and need to be changed.

**Posted:** Tue Jul 27, 2010 4:35 pm

Tayi

*hugs and prayers*

Sorry I didn't get to read this earlier... Don't worry about keeping the taboo for a while, I forgive you; society has a way of enforcing taboos way beyond their usefulness.

I'm not too afraid of most people here repeating their (our) parents' mistakes. Most, if not all, of us are pretty smart, but there are a lot of people that just mindlessly copy behavior because that's the 'normal' thing to do.

(Incoherency looks like a word to me... it's made up of letters and has spaces or punctuation before and after it. Yup, it's a word. I even understand what you mean by it.)

**Posted:** Tue Jul 27, 2010 7:13 pm

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cub_of_the_lamb · Seraphim Joined: 30 Sep 2008 Posts: 351

Thats horrible and so horrifiying, I am so sorry for what you have gone through.

I wish I could help you in some way, prayer is all I can offer for now

**Posted:** Wed Jul 28, 2010 10:23 pm

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